BOARD MEMBER OF ZEN HOSPICE PROJECT AT LAGUNA HONDA HOSPITAL

---Dr. BJ Miller has many other video's, also. Do yourselves a favor and watch a few. Personally, I have never met him. I saw this video about a year ago. He seems to have been discovered a bit over the past year. I like the things he talks about.

WINNER'S and LOSER's: Second Installment

DIFFERENCEs -

Winner's and Loser's

Second Installment

12 Winners try different strategies when they are not getting the results they want. Losers do the same thing over and over again expecting different results.

13 Winners set goals. Losers lack goals.

14 Winners plan. Losers hate having a plan.

15 Winners believe there are always things to be learn. Losers consider themselves as an expert even though they know little.

16 Winners are humble. Losers are egoistic.

17 Winners continue to hone their skill every other day without fail. Losers make little effort in honing their skill.

18 Winners work hard. Losers avoid work.

19 Winners give their best for the things that they decide to do. Losers work half heartedly in everything that they do.

20 Winners are persistent and will do whatever it takes (ethical means) to achieve their goal. Losers give up when obstacles pop up.

21 Winners manage their time well and indulge in high value activities that will bring them closer to their goals. Losers lack time management skills and indulge in time wasting activities like playing games and watching re runs for the umpteen time.

22 Winners dream in the day. Losers dream in bed.

The DIFFERENCES BETWEEN LOSERs + WINNERs!

Striking Differences Between Winners and Losers

---In my quest to post things that may be found useful in one's journey of self-improvement, I found a list of 33 traits that are shared by winners and losers. I am NOT calling anyone names through this, this is what I do. Ever since I discovered that one could actually improve and make his life better...I have been at this. I am sure that being born as I was (missing fingers, etc.,) has much to do with my venture into this career...if you will.

---My wish for you all is in the hope that you discover something that frees you so as to increase your happiness and to make your life and the lives of those you touch...BETTER EACH DAY!

---I plan to share 11 at a time. I hope that you enjoy them! Best to ALL!

Winners Losers

1 Winners focus on solutions. Losers focus on problems.

2 Winners take responsibility. Losers blame others.

3 Winners find opportunities in crisis. Losers complain about crisis.

4 Winners enjoy being in the present and learn from the past. Losers live in the past.

5 Winners make commitment and keep them no matter what. Losers make promises that they always break.

6 Winners think about how they can achieve. Losers give excuses.

7 Winners make personal development a priority. Losers neglect personal development.

8 Winners face their fear, accept it and take the leap. Losers dwell in their fear.

9 Winners constantly expand their comfort zone. Losers stay in their comfort zone.

10 Winners take action consistently. Losers refrain from taking action and lack consistency.

11 Winners take failure in their stride and learn from them. Losers fear failure and avoid them at all cost.

ATTITUDE + EMOTIONs IMPACT ON HEALTH!

ATTITUDE + EMOTIONs IMPACT...
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The PANE CLINIC

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This is NOT the PAIN CLINIC

That We’re Used To;

Nevertheless, It Is The PANE CLINIC

It’s Called THAT to Bring up

The Image of Windows…

The Cleaner It Is, The Clearer It Is!

Sometimes, When Spotless,

It Is Hard To Tell

There is a Window, There!

We Liken This To The MIND

When It Is Clean, and Clear

And as Spotless as can be

When Things Are Seen That Way,

Resistance To The Concept Is Low

Pain Is Hard To Find!

We Can, Actually, Say

When The Pane Is Clean + Clear

The Pain Is NOT Found!

The PANE CLINIC Has Done It’s Job!

In ALL Actuality

The PANE CLINIC RESIDES

In The THIRD EYE…Itself!

OUCH! A Smudge -

There’s The PAIN!

NOT SOON...BE SPECIFIC!

NOT SOON...BE SPECIFIC!

---What if I were to begin by telling you that I heard that there was a glitch in the budget and your next paycheck is going to be delayed. The city is sorry, but they plan to get back to you soon and hope to have this whole matter cleared up. It will be soon...so, do the best you can until it's fixed.

---Like most, you were probably counting on that paycheck to take care of something. Every time you inquire about the status of the paycheck you are told it will be soon. Unless you have enough money socked away, there will come a time in the near future when you will begin to really feel the pinch. The money will become a real necessity.

---I think I have made the point that soon doesn't really cut it. I had a friend in the hospital who was told that the people from a certain church were going to come back soon to see him. This was about 10 am. He started waiting almost right away. At about 11 am he said, ''I wonder where they are?'' It took a few minutes on my part to figure what was going on.

---They had meant that they would come to visit the next time they were in the area. Probably a few weeks from now. The poor guy wanted it to happen right away so he interpreted what they said into an event that would happen right away. This is pretty typical behavior among us humans.

---If you ever had a toothache - relief yesterday, if at all possible, wouldn't be soon enough. If you are the one without the problem, time passes normally. If you have the toothache...each agonizing moment can seem like an eternity. There are many hospital patients who spend a lot of time in that boat. Your understanding of this situation goes up the more you can relate to what I'm saying and have spent time there yourself. Everyone can seem to relate to pain in someway. Even...if only emotionally.

---Most hospital patients have or are dealing with pain in someway. To most patients, time is a bit contorted to begin with.

---The word soon or it's synonyms (directly, shortly, momentarily, right away) are NOT specific and can be downright vague if not followed up. If you're in pain the wait can be something else. In the interest of making things better all the way around, try to BE SPECIFIC and FOLLOW THROUGH! This little word can be the source of much miscommunication between the staff and resident. If attention is paid here and this ''loose end'' was eradicated, both sides would benefit. There would be unity where there once wasn't. Many hospital patients will be very happy you made the adjustment. REMEMBER: NOT SOON...BE SPECIFIC! Be Well.

This is a draft and will, probably, be tweaked in someway!

RIP - ELIZABETH CUTLER

---Many may not be aware of the fact that Elizabeth Cutler passed on over a week ago. She passed very peacefully. She was a very good friend of mine. She was Resident Council President at the time we moved from the old hospital to the new. Her brother Reese sent this video. 


---I think that most of what she wrote was wonderful...as was she!

MEMORIAL DAY TWOFER - OLD + NEW!

---Three minute video made a few years ago. It's called, ''CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY!'' it talks about life as a series of choices! As usual...there is a message, but the production is lacking.

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