---Here is a 9 mins review of 'The DALE CARNEGIE' book that speaks volumes. A must see.
HOSPITAL COMMUNICATIONs! A LONGTERM PATIENT PERSPECTIVE
Saturday, December 17, 2016
Friday, December 2, 2016
HOW TO WIN FRIENDs...DALE CARNEGIE
10 Tips (above)
HOW
TO WIN FRIENDs and INFLUENCE PEOPLE (PRINCIPLEs)
BECOME
A FRIENDLIER PERSON
1.
Don't criticize, condemn or complain.
2.
Give honest, sincere appreciation.
3.
Arouse in the other person an eager want.
4.
Become genuinely interested in other people.
5.
Smile.
6.
Remember that a person's name is to that person the most important sound in any
language.
7.
Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
8.
Talk in terms of the other person's interest.
9.
Make the other person feel important - and do so sincerely.
10
The only way to get the best of an argument is to
avoid it.
WIN
PEOPLE TO YOUR WAY OF THINKING
11.
Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're
wrong."
12.
If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
13.
Begin in a friendly way.
14.
Get the other person saying, "Yes, yes" immediately.
15.
Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
16.
Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
17.
Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
18.
Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
19.
Appeal to the nobler motives.
20.
Dramatize your ideas.
BE
A LEADER
21.
Throw down a challenge.
22.
Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
23.
Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
24.
Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
25.
Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
26.
Let the other person save face.
27.
Praise the slightest and every improvement. Be "lavish in your
praise."
28.
Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
29.
Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
30.
Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.
Tuesday, November 29, 2016
HOW TO ''NOT'' WIN FRIENDs and INFLUENCE PEOPLE - ''NOT'' DALE CARNEGIE!
---HOW TO ''NOT'' WIN FRIENDs and INFLUENCE PEOPLE by ''NOT'' DALE CARNEGIE!
---I wonder if anyone recognizes the behavior of themselves or anyone they know in this video?
Sunday, November 27, 2016
Friday, November 25, 2016
ROY REMER - FORMER ZEN VOLUNTEER COORDINATOR HOSPICE at LHH
---The Zen Hospice Project is trying to promote a friendlier and better relationship with death than we now have.
Saturday, November 19, 2016
The INNER CRITIC!
The INNER CRITIC
---We all have that little voice inside that encourages or discourages the things that we do. In its’ raw form we are usually discouraged from doing things and told how foolish we are for even considering doing that. Many times we are discouraged and see NO value in pursuing practically anything, because 1] we will probably fail along the way, 2] we are probably undertaking this venture for the wrong reasons or 3] where is going get us anyway?
---We can end up doing little of anything, because BETTER SAFE THAN SORRY - NO sense looking silly. If everything was a guaranteed success there would no problem and we could laud it over the whole world showing how good we are. But, if we fail, we may look foolish in the eyes of the very people we have fooled or think we have fooled. We have our ever so precious reputation to think of so, it is easier to chalk things up to what’s the use? Nothing ventured, Nothing gained…but nothing lost so I can get back to my quiet desperation and indignation. I can now sit and enjoy the million and a half excuses I will make concerning why I will NOT pursue this.
---This is what the inner critic does. Your job is to have an idea of something that you’d like to do or would be a good idea to do AND the inner critic gets the fire wood, the kindling, lights the match and basically has you sit in a paralyzed state listening to hundreds or thousand of reasons and excuses why you should NEVER pursue this. If you allow him to feed this fire over and over…he will probably tell you that moving from this spot is NOT A GOOD IDEA, EITHER!
---Many people had parents that feel that GOOD PARENTING is about criticizing the child into seeing the errors of his way in hopes that he shapes up and acts in a way that the parent is more approving of. Please listen to the talks provided and be free of this negativity. Be Well!
Making friends with Inner Critic
CLICK PICTURE
---We all have that little voice inside that encourages or discourages the things that we do. In its’ raw form we are usually discouraged from doing things and told how foolish we are for even considering doing that. Many times we are discouraged and see NO value in pursuing practically anything, because 1] we will probably fail along the way, 2] we are probably undertaking this venture for the wrong reasons or 3] where is going get us anyway?
---We can end up doing little of anything, because BETTER SAFE THAN SORRY - NO sense looking silly. If everything was a guaranteed success there would no problem and we could laud it over the whole world showing how good we are. But, if we fail, we may look foolish in the eyes of the very people we have fooled or think we have fooled. We have our ever so precious reputation to think of so, it is easier to chalk things up to what’s the use? Nothing ventured, Nothing gained…but nothing lost so I can get back to my quiet desperation and indignation. I can now sit and enjoy the million and a half excuses I will make concerning why I will NOT pursue this.
---This is what the inner critic does. Your job is to have an idea of something that you’d like to do or would be a good idea to do AND the inner critic gets the fire wood, the kindling, lights the match and basically has you sit in a paralyzed state listening to hundreds or thousand of reasons and excuses why you should NEVER pursue this. If you allow him to feed this fire over and over…he will probably tell you that moving from this spot is NOT A GOOD IDEA, EITHER!
---Many people had parents that feel that GOOD PARENTING is about criticizing the child into seeing the errors of his way in hopes that he shapes up and acts in a way that the parent is more approving of. Please listen to the talks provided and be free of this negativity. Be Well!
Making friends with Inner Critic
Your Inner Critic is a BIG JERK!
Monday, November 14, 2016
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